I Miss You, But I Miss Me More

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Of Course I Miss You—But Let Me Be Honest
Missing You, But Missing Myself More

Of Course I Miss You—But Let Me Be Honest

A raw and honest reflection on love, self-worth, and reclaiming who you used to be

Do you really need to ask me if I miss you? Of course I do. How could I not? I invested so much of myself—my time, my energy, my heart—into our relationship. It’s only natural that I’d feel the absence of something that once meant so much to me.

But here’s the thing: as much as I miss you, there’s someone else I miss even more. And that person is me.

The Person I Used to Be

I miss the version of myself that existed before I met you. That guy—the one who was always smiling, who radiated confidence, who people loved to be around—that’s who I truly miss.

  • I miss waking up every morning with clarity about who I was
  • I miss hitting the gym without hesitation
  • I miss being unapologetically me

Before I met you, I knew exactly who I was. But somewhere along the way, I lost sight of that person. I changed everything about myself to fit into what I thought our relationship needed.

What I Don’t Miss

While I’ll admit I miss you, let me tell you what I absolutely don’t miss:

  • Being disrespected: The constant feeling that my efforts were never enough
  • Feeling inadequate: Hearing over and over again that I wasn’t good enough
  • Living in chaos: Always feeling like something was wrong
“Sometimes you have to let go of the person you thought you were to become who you’re meant to be.”

Finding My Way Back to Me

Yes, I miss you. But what I miss more is the man I was before I let your presence overshadow my sense of self. This journey isn’t easy, but I’m ready to do the work because I owe it to myself.

A Message to Anyone Who Feels Lost

If you’re reading this and nodding along, know that you’re not alone. Start by asking yourself:

  • Who were you before you started compromising your happiness?
  • What made you feel alive and confident?
  • How can you reconnect with that version of yourself today?

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